Living in Vietnam With Children – Hoi An

Our adventure of living in Vietnam has begun: we arrived 7 days ago and it feels like we have already been here a month, mostly because we have been busy organising renting a house and settling in.

Culture Shock

I have to say the first couple of days in Hoi An we all experienced a little culture shock. Even though we have spent a long time in Asia in the past, we recently spent the summer living in Winchester, England, which as you can imagine is a very orderly and organised part of the world.

The Noise and The Heat

So landing in Vietnam, the heat and humidity was the first aspect to adjust to and Marco and I seemed to suffer the most. Then it was the noise, and the MOTORBIKES! I’ll be honest, I was asking myself whether we had made the right decision moving here. But we rolled with it for the first few days, finding our feet and the culture shock faded away.

Living in vietnam with kids

Kids Going To School

With the priority of getting the girls started in School, I’m happy to report that went really smoothly. Especially for our eldest daughter who was very ready for school and announced she loves it so much she wants to go everyday. Long may this sentiment continue! 

Earlier on in the year, we had considered homeschooling/ WorldSchooling both our daughters, but had a change of heart a few months ago. Seeing both our girls start school this week, it confirmed, we have made the right decision. Both our  daughters were crying out for more interactions with other children and having a little more structure to their day.

On a personal level, with the girls at school 7hrs of the day, I immediately felt a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Having a few hours away from the girls, was something I had been craving for a long time. I love my daughters dearly and I enjoy spending time with them. However, mentally the last few months have been difficult for both Marco and I.

The 24/7 being together as a family with not many breaks became too much after two years of  full time travel. All of us were getting frustrated and annoyed with each other, all too frequently. I’m interested to see how the next few months go, where we will have a more structured routine and a few hours away from each other.

Living in vietnam with kids schools
Living in vietnam with kids schools

Eating in Vietnam

We attended a spur of the moment lunch with other expats at Ms Vys new restaurant called Yum Cha. Ms Vy has created an exciting menu of both traditional and new fusion dim sum dishes – many Chinese favourites along with some original creations of her own, using ingredients and flavours local to Hoi An. The result is a vibrant dining experience where the food comes freshly prepared directly from the kitchen to the diners. You don’t need to choose from a menu – just stop one of the passing carts when you see something you fancy.

The concept reminded me of Tapas restaurants in Spain. The result was delicious, my personal favourite was the Dim Sum the mix of flavours were out of his world, the duck and rice soup dishes were great too. 

Ms Vy was there in person and able to recount her story of growing up in Hoi An and how she started in the restaurant business. Most importantly for us, she was able to give some valuable advice on how expats living in Hoi An are able to integrate better with the local people.

You can also find good cooking classes (even for vegan and vegetarian) directly online here:

Here is a list of my observations of our first week living in Vietnam with children

  • When it rains it pours and you need to be prepared with a poncho, we got caught out and so soaked through, it wasn’t a pleasant experience.
  • Grocery Shopping is a twice daily event, as you pass through the markets morning and evening.
  • House spiders come as big as you hand, however if you leave them alone, they can be a valuable house guest, eating flies and mosquito’s for you.
  • Ants in the kitchen are real problem, they find there way into what you thought, was the most well sealed bag.
  • We love the café culture in Vietnam and Marco and have started our daily routine and returned to our favourite local place called Tri Long Coffee over looking the rice fields.
tri long coffee hoi an

Overall a great first week in Hoi An, we’re very excited to be living in Vietnam and looking forward to exploring other regions of the country whilst we are here.

rain in hoi an motorbike
spider in hoi an

7 thoughts on “Living in Vietnam With Children – Hoi An”

  1. Hi Felicity. Great to see you and family back in Hoi An. We are arriving there on 28 December and looking forward to it as our 1st DN destination as a family. We actually got alot of inspiration from you and Marco and looked at your 1st video of your family in Hoi An. Our 2 year old cannot stop talking about the school he has seen and wants to go there:-) Can you perhaps help with a little bit of more information on the schools. I am trying to get in contact with Little Elephants, but cannot locate their number. I just want to get to understand their basic fee structure. Also any other info will be greatly appreciated.

  2. Werner,
    Great to hear from you, it’s so lovely to hear form families we have inspired with our travels and vlogs, that was always the main aim of our blog to inspire others to travel, showing it really is possible even with small children. We are glad to be back in Hoi An an and finally settling a bit. That is great that your coming here first, we will have to meet up. I’ll email you directly about the school options and Little Elephant. We will keep in touch. Felicity

  3. Great! Thanks Felicity. For sure, it will be great to meetup. See you and family soon:-)

  4. I just sent you an email with all the information about Little Elephant and some advice. Let me know if you have any questions, we look forward to meeting you when you arrive in Hoi An.

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  6. Hi Felicity,
    Great article, would you be able to provide more information on schools? Thank you, Justin.

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